Showing posts with label high school. Show all posts
Showing posts with label high school. Show all posts

Monday, August 6, 2012

The End To High School Reunions


 
    High School is an interesting place, you don’t really learn a ton, the whole construction behind High School is that you learn how to learn, you learn the social dramas you’re going to face for the rest of your life and basically in a general sense learn who you are and where you fit in this world. This transformation takes time and there is a very real distinct evolution that occurs in each and every student, even those that seem to not have evolved at all have done so, everyone takes something away from High School, some love it, some hate it, but in the end one thing is true for everyone, High School was a little preview of what you would face for the rest of your life. 

     
      This introduction to High School is important, the fact that through your four years you experience a bit of the world at large is a big deal and the people you share those experiences with become a large deal in your life later on. It’s not like you talk to everyone you knew in your class or that you particularly care about any of them but there is a thread there, a chord that keeps you all in touch and thus the High School reunions came about as a logical conclusion to this ever occurring phenomenon. High School reunions have always been a bit silly, there are always some people that care a ton about them and some people that could care less about them. There are those that have grown in stature and as people, and those that have wrecked their lives and clearly need help. In short it feels like you’re back in High School again. 


       The Concept behind a reunion was simple, after graduation the majority of your High School class will disperse and you won’t talk to them again, some will stick around and you’ll see them from time to time, and if you’re lucky like myself then you’ll remain close friends with your best friends from High School even years after graduation. The fact is that reunions where created so that people in the class could come together and catch up on life, where they could be whoever they choose to be and either mock the event or have fun with the event, the whole point was that you haven’t heard news about one another in years and want to catch up now. Even though High School Reunions are a good idea they can’t be executed anymore, they no longer are relevant, I predict that reunions will soon become a thing of the past. 


       The concept here is simple actually, reunions will soon be a thing of the past because of one life changing bit of advancement, Facebook. Social Networking has made the whole point of High School reunions become obsolete, everyone is connected to everyone and by the click of a button you can find out what they are doing with their lives, who they are married to, what job they have, where they studied, and if you feel like you can even have a conversation with them and learn all the grimy details about their personal life or marriage, the world got way small and reunions began to be unnecessary. Here’s something that would not surprise me one bit, Facebook High School reunions, I’ll be very surprised if this is not already happening on the site, it’s just the logical step, it’s convenient, simple, cheap and you only engage the people you really feel like engaging, sounds like a dream really. 


    High School reunions are kind of a drag, yeah there’s the element of seeing some people you really love and have missed over the years, yeah there’s the element of being able to catch up and have spouses being introduced to you and so forth but with Facebook in the picture all this meet and greet becomes redundant, someone will go “hey I just had a kid” and you’ll be thinking “yeah I know, you only posted 50 freaking pictures and blew up my feed with the little guy”, it just ruins the whole point, thus I propose the prediction that in coming generations reunions will be a thing of the past, because, well, they are a thing of the past, they are outdated and silly, specially with us all now being friends with each other and connected through social networking, the point is just not there anymore.

     Go go social networking, destroying bad traditions and allowing us to stay close with people we love and those we don’t all in one place in harmony. Hope you had a fantastic weekend and that this week might be awesome.

  Love from your humble blogger, 

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Last Minute Christmas Shopping "Toys That Never Go Old"


    We have five days till Christmas is upon us, and last minute gift shopping is approaching, that stressful time of the year. Due to this phenomenon approaching, we've decided to aid you in your conquest of finding gifts for that difficult cousin, or that crazy aunt, we are always here to help. As we compiled a normal "last minute" list, something came upon us, something we had forgotten, that some toys are never outgrown, and no matter who you are or what stage in your life you are, you cannot help but to love them. This is not true for all toys, and not all toys on the list apply to everyone, but if I were to bet I would say that at least one of these toys applies to you or a close relative. These would be a fun gift, an unexpected surprise, and bringing someone the ability to remember their childhood days is a gift that has immeasurable worth.

Nerf Guns


       There aren't many guys, out there that would not love to get a Nerf gun, there is something about them that just brings joy to the heart. This applies to some girls as well, people in general, love them. Its a strange phenomenon, in Middle School Nerf is the bomb, in High School you are a nerd if you play with them, in College most frats have 20-30 guns themselves, and in Grad School a nerf gun brings about much joy and remembrance, and in your professional life the process repeats in the same order. It's one of those toys that most will never outgrow, a solid choice. If you are thinking about buying a present for a large group of friends you could even buy them all separate types of Nerf guns, ones that would fit each personality your friends have and give it to them all at once, 9/10 times this will result in good times occurring.

Lego


   I'm personally not a huge fan of them, thus proving that some are not into them, but I also didn't play with them much in my childhood. If you have someone in your family that loved them as a child, they will love them as an adult, even if when you give it to them they brush it off, know that when they get home they'll rip the package open and start playing with their Legos. It's a phenomenon really, there are some toys that we will never outgrow, some toys that bring us to a simpler time, and again there are few things in this world as important as being able to take a break, relax, and enjoy something you love, something you cherish, old toys hit just that spot sometimes, and thus another good gift.

Board Games


     Though they say on the package that it's fun for all ages, we know that there are some board games out there that are designed for a younger audience, which is shocking, for they are still fun even today. Some examples that come to mind are Life, Monopoly, Jenga (that counts), Battleship, Operation, Mouse Trap, Clue, Candy Land, and so forth. Get a few friends together and these games are still fun, no matter what age group you belong to. The High School phenomenon still occurs for these games as well sometimes, for some reason things that were cool in Middle School skip High School and become fun again in College, it might have to do with the lack of worry about popularity and the freedom to just be yourself and enjoy life, a good time overall.

Video Games


     Though this is a newer toy, it is still a toy, one for the whole family, and one that is now accepted everywhere, even during the High School phase. There are games for all types of people, sports, dance, shooting, story based games, puzzle, role playing games and so forth. Its astounding for the video game phenomenon overtook the people and now is an accepted toy within most peoples in all age groups, where as when they first came out only the nerds were into them, this is truly a revenge of the nerds moment to all those old jocks from back in the day. So if someone has a system, find them a good game and they will love you, doesn't have to be a new game, could be an older one, just make sure to go to a game site and check how the games were reviewed, if they were good or bad and such, www.ign.com is one such site.

Old Fun Toys

    This requires a little bit more research into the person you might be buying a gift for, but is still a good one. Everyone has That toy that they loved when they were children, this could be a teddy bear, a toy soldier, an action figure even, everyone's got something that they loved as a child that they would love to have again as an adult. This category applies to a very large group of toys, you can buy him/her a Rock'em Sock'em, or it could be an old Atari, and so forth. Again this is the hardest one to get right on the list, but is the one that could bring someone to tears of joy when they receive it. Everyone's got one, got something they loved or wanted but could never afford, with a little research you can find what that was and bring about a Christmas miracle.


   As the Holidays are approaching, we at So Danca want to wish everyone good tidings, and send our love to you. May this week be a great one for you, and may you have a great weekend with family and friends.

Love from your humble blogger,